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Women of the world are ready to wake up — to the full power, beauty and juicy essence of their sexuality. We live in a world of women’s empowerment – and yet so many women live with secret fears and questions about their sexuality.

Common questions I get from women across the globe include: What does it really mean to be a woman, sexually? What is sexual pleasure in a woman’s body?

We have become as competent as men in the world of business. We meditate, we exercise, we take care of our families and our relationships, we express ourselves. We may even have relatively good sex. And yet something in us as women feels unfulfilled.

We know that there is more. 

We know that we are just scratching the surface

of who we really are.

Women that I meet all over the world struggle to feel pleasure or anything at all during love making. We feel pressured into having an experience and giving an experience that we simply don’t feel. Many women just want to get sex over with.

On the other extreme, we want the thrill of sex, but avoid sex that will touch our hearts. We either avoid intimate partnership, or close down on some level in our relationships.

We swing between sexual recklessness and sexual numbness.

At the same time, we sense — we KNOW — that this being woman, sexual woman, is something awesome and profound.

But we just cannot find the way to unlock what is
perhaps the biggest mystery on all:
What really IS feminine sexual essence?

How can we live it, fully, boldly, and without reserve? Perhaps we secretly suspect that we are scared of the power of it.

Much of our sexual behaviour as women is based on modern cultural myths that we have taken on unconsciously. We read women’s magazines or compare ourselves to other women — when in fact our real beauty has nothing to do with the image of women presented by the media.

We unconsciously believe that we should be experiencing sex the same way that men do — while our bodies and our sexual energetics are uniquely different from theirs. We secretly despise being women because we associate woman with weakness — when in fact, SHE is pure power. We walk around with top secret questions that get in the way of us feeling ourselves as sexual beings.

Through working with thousands of woman around the world for more than a decade, I have found 7 questions about sexuality recur for women. They keep these questions secret – and suffer the consequences. In this talk, I will address and answer these questions, for your liberation.


Question #1: How can I have a better orgasm – or any orgasm at all?

So many women are dissatisfied about the quality of their orgasms during lovemaking. Perhaps as many women believe that they don’t have orgasms at all – and live with the terrible secret of faking orgasm for the benefit of their partners. I demystify orgasm for women and introduce you to the true orgasmic potential which is our birthright.

Question #2: What does it mean to be feminine?

We have grown up in a masculine world with male role models. We have become as good as men, if not better, in many areas – even sex. Many a woman has confessed to me, in exasperation, that they don’t really have a clue what it means to be feminine any more – especially in bed. Once you hear my talk about what feminine sexual essence is, and how to start living from there, you will wonder why it has taken you so long to find out.

Question #3: Where do I find a lover?

The frustration of not being able to find a partner to go explore the depths of lovemaking with is a major obstacle for so many women. I share some fundamental principles here to help you get into alignment for the meeting with the beloved – internally and externally.

Question #4: How do I turn bad sex into good sex?

This question has come to me from many women who are in relationships – often long-standing partnerships – where lovemaking has become habituated and unfulfilling. For this reason, so many women just want to get sex over with. It is possible to turn the tide of your lovemaking – if you apply the three principles I will share with you in this talk.

Question #5: What can I do to be less self conscious during sex?

Making love is perhaps the most intimate and up-close meeting humans ever get to experience. We see each other’s cellulite when the clothes come off. We are confronted with each other’s wrinkles and morning-after hair. Emotions and insecurities come up at the most inopportune moments. Learn how to find your way through these murky waters, and discover how lovemaking can plunge you into wild, ecstatic freedom.

Question #6: What about fantasy?

What if I am in bed with my beloved and suddenly sexual fantasy arises? What if I can’t orgasm without going into fantasy? And even more embarrassing than my erotic response being based on a secret fantasy life – what if I have terrible fantasies? These questions are so edgy for many women that even asking them puts our nervous systems into high gear. I introduce some basic principles for working with sexual fantasy.

Question #7: Can I have sex without breaking my heart?

If you have ever given yourself in lovemaking, chances are that your heart has been broken – not once, but many times over. For this reason, many resolve that the way to protect their hearts from breaking again, is to separate love and sex. We call it sexual liberation. We call it emancipation, freedom from codependence. In the west, we even call it Tantra. But the truth is, only in being willing to let your heart be broken, will you dive into the divine majesty of your feminine sexual essence. I guide you into finding clarity and courage for this journey.


It is time for us to come together as women — as a sisterhood — to discover the mystery of feminine sexuality for ourselves. I offer myself to you as a crone, a guide and as an initiator, into this journey. As we explore who we truly are as women, we can open to the divine alchemy between man and woman, masculine and feminine.

During this unique online seminar, you will learn:

  • The key qualities of feminine sexual essence and how to apply them in your life
  • The answers to your secret questions about feminine sexuality and lovemaking
  • How to enter into your body as a woman and feel the expansion of your sexual energy

  • How to support the awakening of feminine sexual essence on the planet, and thus help co-create the world we want to live in

It is time for  us women to live through our bodies and our sexuality as radiant, pulsing aliveness.

In saying “Yes” to this calling, we are saying Yes to creating a new earth, a new reality, a life lived in truth and love and profound embodied presence.

I invite you to join me for this LIVE global online seminar in which I will share with you the pathway to unlocking your feminine sexual essence.


About Shakti Malan, Ph.D.

Shakti MalanShakti has a profound passion for the feminine, and she believes that the awakening of female sexual energy is a key to the spiritual awakening of the world in our day. She has been facilitating the discovery of female sexual energy to many women across the world over the last decade.

Her book Sexual Awakening for Women and the courses she teaches based on the book create a space for women to discover the deep feminine and to open to their true magnificence in deep resonance with the masculine. For more than a decade, Shakti has supported women in many countries to reconnect with their sexual essence, creative freedom and spontaneous wildness, to release sexual trauma, and to transform ancestral patterning.

Shakti holds a Ph.D. in Social Anthropology, a discipline that has taught her to work with collective consciousness in groups and in holding a global field of possibility for women around their sexuality. She teaches globally and lives both in South Africa and the United States.